Monday 17 September 2012

My Fiancé Can’t Satisfy Me With Sex; If We Get Married It May Not Last


This story of a 28 yrs old lady, who never had an orgasm, even when her fiance thrust for 30 minutes, she can’t be satisfied. She now cries out “If We Get Married It May Not Last”and she's really in need of your honest advice now....read the story below:


I am dating a very nice guy, 4 years older than me. I am 28 years old. We were friends and knew each other for a period of time before deciding to become lovers. I moved from Abuja to be with him in Lagos and he got me a well paying job in a top business firm on the Island.
He later proposed to me earlier this year and I accepted because I love him and he is a good man. Now my problem is this, the SEX!!
Since we started being intimate and having sex, I have NEVER had an orgasm with him during penetration! He has never been able to make me climax with his penis. He keeps thrusting for more than 30 minutes and I just want him to get it over already and let me sleep. I have talked to him about it, and he even asks me after he ejaculates, if I came. I always say “almost did.” I am a VERY physical and sexual person, and I request sex twice a day (not mandatory). But I get horny A LOT! Sometimes he tells me he is not in the mood to go again. I know he cares about making me feel good and satisfy me, because anytime I tell him what direction/position I want, he listens and obeys. But I still can’t climax. I do love it though when he uses his fingers, I actually climax if it’s his fingers but not his penis! And no his penis is not small or big. It is moderate and okay for me, I don’t like huge tools that rip me open abeg.
He has some weight on him and a bit of what we call “pot belly.” And sometimes that gets in the way, especially when I want to do it sitting down. His belly covers the tool so we always end up lying down. How do I tell him all this without bruising his ego?
I have been thinking if this how sex will be for the rest of my life? I want to know if I’m the only lady that can’t have an orgasm?? Am I sick and lone in this?

bibbys readers, what do you think and suggest for this lady?

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